You shouldn't have to carry it all alone.
You shouldn't have to carry it all alone.
Private AI support that understands relational harm, organizes your experience, and reduces the burden of reclaiming your life.
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Support that becomes a solution.
Support that becomes a solution.
There's emotional support, and then there are documenting tools. Aimee blends the two — listening and supporting while turning messy, painful experiences into actionable clarity.
Can Aimee help you?
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TALK
Tell Aimee what happened.
In your own words, at your own pace. No judgment. Just a private space to get it out and decide what's next.
Capture
Aimee turns moments into records.
As you talk, Aimee captures details of what you share into structured events—so you don’t have to remember it all.
Let Aimee do it, upload existing spreadsheets, or manually enter events.
Bubble size represents frequency. Grouped bubbles show related tactics and child factors.
RECLAIM
Let Aimee share the load.
Everything stays organized and ready. So when you need it—for a lawyer, therapist, support person or just yourself—it's already there.
Binders
Chaos to clarity, in seconds.
A record of what happened, in order.
72 total content cardsEvidence and notes for the custody case.
64 total content cardsMoney withheld, accounts hidden.
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Financial control
This binder pulls together the events, documents, and chats that show how money and access were controlled — accounts hidden, support withheld, spending policed. It reads as one continuous record so the pattern is clear to a lawyer or advocate.
- Funds were moved out of a shared account without notice on more than one occasion.
- A second account appears in several chats, kept out of view.
- Support and shared costs were repeatedly refused.
- No formal financial documents yet — bank statements would strengthen the record.
This tab focuses on hidden accounts — money and assets kept out of view. It gathers the events, documents, and chats that show where funds were moved or concealed, so the pattern reads clearly for a lawyer or advocate. Each entry is dated and linked back to its source, so nothing rests on memory alone.
- A chat describing a joint account emptied without notice.
- An event logging a shared card cancelled without warning.
- A bank statement flagged as evidence of withheld funds.
- Repeated refusals to cover agreed shared costs.
- Notes pointing to a second account kept out of view.
- Transfers timed to land between paydays, avoiding questions.
Bubble size represents frequency. Grouped bubbles show related tactics and child factors.
Withheld grocery money
Refused to give money for groceries again — said I should ask my mother.
Bank statement — March
statement_march.pdf
Asked Aimee about hidden accounts
Talked through noticing a second account and what to record.
Refused to cover rent
Said covering rent this month was “my problem” despite our agreement.
Aimee reduces the burden
Most people experiencing relationship harm already know their situation is different from normal "problems".
Aimee turns lived experience into evidence—while staying supportive and private.
Share what's on your mind today
Assemble evidence, data and narratives
Choose the support you need.
Anonymous Chat
Talk to Aimee anytime with no account, no data storage.
- No account required
- No storage of conversations
- Fully private session
- Unlimited check-ins
Memory & Organization
Aimee remembers, keeps track and shares the load. You don't have to start over every time.
- Store it all, securely
- Track patterns over time
- Upload and review documents, evidence
- Build timelines and binders
- Export anything when needed
Aimee Detects
Upload a communication record up to 20 MB. Aimee analyzes it for 130+ types of controlling behavior, then drafts Events and adds them to your account.
Your story belongs to you.
We never train on your chats or data, and anonymous chats aren't stored.
If the relationship that brought you here feels:
If the relationship that brought you here feels:
Frequently Asked Questions
You don't need to be sure to talk with Aimee. Many people start by questioning whether behaviors are narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, relationship abuse, or just toxic patterns. Aimee helps you explore signs of gaslighting, coercive control, trauma bonding, and manipulation without judgment—no labels or proof required.
Start chatting free to understand what you're experiencing.
Yes! Basic chat with Aimee is completely free, forever. Talk 24/7 about narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, domestic violence, trauma bonding, or any relationship concerns at no cost.
Upgrade to Aimee Says More ($20/month) for advanced features like event documentation, document analysis, and chat history. Try it free for 7 days.
Yes. Your conversations are completely private and secure. We do not train the model on user data. Free chats disappear after your session. Paid accounts use security best practices and are never shared with anyone—not your partner, not law enforcement, not anyone.
Your safety is our #1 priority. Credit card charges appear as "AIMEE" for discretion, so there's no trace of "abuse support" or "narcissistic abuse help" on your statement.
Yes. Aimee helps you create safety plans, document all forms of abuse like narcissistic abuse and coercive control for legal proceedings, understand your options, and prepare for separation. Aimee provides 24/7 support throughout the leaving process, including dealing with trauma bonding that makes it hard to leave.
In immediate danger? Call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
Narcissistic abuse is a pattern of emotional abuse involving manipulation, gaslighting, and coercive control. It often includes trauma bonding (intense attachment despite harm), blame-shifting, isolation from support systems, and cycles of idealization and devaluation.
Aimee helps you recognize narcissistic abuse patterns, understand why it's so hard to leave, and create a plan for recovery—whether you're still in the relationship or healing after.
Anything related to all forms of relationships abuse like narcissistic abuse, relationship abuse, emotional abuse, or toxic relationships—past, present, or future. Talk about gaslighting, trauma bonding, financial control, coercive control, co-parenting with a narcissist, custody battles, or healing from abuse.
Aimee understands manipulation tactics, narcissistic patterns, and post-separation abuse. There's no topic too small or too complicated.
No, Aimee is an AI companion trained specifically on narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, coercive control, and relationship abuse patterns. Aimee provides educational support, helps you understand gaslighting and manipulation tactics, and assists with documentation.
Aimee complements—but doesn't replace—professional therapy, legal advice, or crisis services.
Yes! Aimee works on any device—iPhone, Android, tablet, or computer. Simply visit AimeeSays.com from any web browser. No app download required, so there's nothing suspicious on your phone if your partner checks it.
Many people experiencing coercive control need this privacy. We designed Aimee to be accessible without leaving digital traces.
Absolutely. Aimee specializes in post-separation abuse and parallel parenting with a narcissist. Get help documenting coercive control, setting boundaries with a toxic ex, protecting your children from manipulation, and staying organized through custody battles.
Many users rely on Aimee's documentation features for family court proceedings involving narcissistic abuse.
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Build a different future.
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